by Rita Oziegbe
Being a parent, makes you the child’s first and most important teacher.
The importance of the involvement of parents, family and care takers in
children’s education cannot be overemphasized as the children do better,
achieve more in school and feel better about their schooling. When we talk
about parent’s involvement, we don’t just mean the paying of their school fees,
buying of their school materials, participating in school meetings and raising
funds for the school, it involves the active engagement with the child’s
learning at home and at school.
No thanks to the global economic meltdown with everyone trying to make
ends meet, both parents leave home very early in the morning and come home
almost when the children are asleep, tired out and going straight to bed only
to continue the same cycle the next day. During the weekends that parents
should spend time with their children, they find themselves involved in other
activities such as town meetings, club meeting and religious gatherings. Not
that these are bad in themselves but that the future of those whom we claim to
be doing them for, is sacrificed. With these, it is clear that more is expected
of the parents if we are to be actively engaged in the children’s learning.
How then do we get started?...
The following are some helpful tips;
Create a form of partnership with your child’s teachers and school
staff. Meet your child’s teacher and make it known that you are interested in
helping your child learn, find out the areas your child is having problems and
discuss how it can be solved. Let the teacher know that he/she is free to get
in touch with you should your child develop any other problem. Get to know
other people who help in your child’s learning
since there are many other people involve in the day to day running f
the school activities and be able to control how they affect your child’s
learning. If the English language they use in school is what scares you, then
you can get an interpreter while you use your local language or one you are comfortable
with to communicate your concerns.
Don’t just leave the rest to the teacher but take a step further by
supporting your child’s learning at home. Make out time to help with their
homework or other school related activities, don’t do their homework for them
for it will not help them on the long run, encourage them to use the media effectively, discuss
educational issues with the child, talk with the child and find out his/her areas
of difficulties and offer help in terms of advice on how these difficulties can
be addressed, encourage them to read and use the library but you can make it
more fun by participating in some reading exercises with them. Monitor the
child’s usage of the television, video games and the internet and above all;
demonstrate a strong positive attitude about education to your children because
they look up to you as a role model.
Engage in a kind of follow up on your child’s performance in school, get
special services if your child needs one, help the child prepare for test and
examinations and get to review the child’s report card each time it comes out. Your
not being learned is not an excuse, you can involve other family members who
are educated or get help from educated people around you. Ensure that your
children attend school regularly as this also help in their performance. All
these and more might seem tasking but WORTHWHILE. May God bless all the efforts
we make towards our children’s success in life.
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